The Kid Whisperer: All phones should be banned from all schools Scott Ervin, Tribune News Service Jun 3, 2025 Jun 3, 2025 0 Social media is stealing kids' attention, according to Behavioral consultant Scott Ervin, M.Ed. (Dreamstime/TNS) Dreamstime/Dreamstime/TNS Facebook Twitter WhatsApp SMS Email Print Copy article link Save Scott Ervin, Tribune News Service I am breaking my behavioral advice column format for the first time since I started writing it in 2014.kAm%96 ?@C>2= 7@C>2E @7 2?DH6C:?8 BF6DE:@?D 23@FE 9@H 25F=ED 42? E6249 <:5D E@ 36 36EE6C A6@A=6 H:== C6EFC? ?6IE H66<]k^AmkAmx 92G6 ?6G6C 3C@<6? 7@C>2E 3642FD6[ :? >J =:76E:>6[ E96C6 92D ?6G6C 366? 2 E@A:4 :? 65F42E:@? E92E H2D D@ :>A@CE2?E E@ E96 =:G6D @7 <:5D]k^AmkAm%9:D @?6 :D 5:776C6?E]k^Am kAmx’> 3C62<:?8 7@C>2E E@ A=625 H:E9 2== C6256CD E@ 5@ H92E6G6C E96J 42? E@ 42== 7@C 2?5 DFAA@CE 2 E@E2= 32? @? DEF56?ED 92G:?8 A9@?6D :? 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