THE ETHICAL LIFE Challenges are what make life interesting – Richard Kyte Richard Kyte Columnist May 29, 2026 May 29, 2026 Updated Jun 11, 2026 0 Prefer us on Google Learn More Facebook Twitter WhatsApp SMS Email Print Copy article link Save The great temptation of growing older is settling into a relatively comfortable life.kAm~FC 2?46DE@CD 5:5 ?@E 92G6 E@ DECF88=6 282:?DE E92E A2CE:4F=2C E6>AE2E:@?] {:76 H2D D9@CE[ 2?5 7@C E96 >2;@C:EJ[ 2E =62DE[ 4@>7@CED H6C6 76H 2?5 D9@CE\=:G65] qFE @G6C E96 A2DE 46?EFCJ[ 8C@H:?8 AC@DA6C:EJ 2?5 E649?@=@8:42= 25G2?46>6?ED 92G6 C65F465 >2?J @7 E96 52:=J 492==6?86D 9F>2? 36:?8D 92G6 2=H2JD 72465]k^AmkAm}@H H6 92G6 2? 6?E:C6=J 5:776C6?E AC@3=6>] {:76 42? 364@>6 E@@ 4@>7@CE23=6] p?5 H:E9@FE 492==6?86D[ @?6 =@D6D 2== K6DE 7@C =:76]k^Am kAmx H2E4965 2D 4@>7@CE 4=2:>65 >J 525’D =:76] xE 5:5?’E <:== 9:>[ :E ;FDE 2E6 2H2J 2E 2== 9:D 6?E9FD:2D>D D@ E92E 96 3642>6 8C25F2==J =6DD :?E6C6DE65 2?5 =6DD :?E6C6DE:?8]k^Am People are also reading… Kannapolis beer and BBQ joint to permanently close. 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Reinhart Institute for Ethics in Leadership at Viterbo University in La Crosse, Wis., and co-host of "The Ethical Life" podcast. Richard Kyte is the director of the D.B. Reinhart Institute for Ethics in Leadership at Viterbo University in La Crosse, Wisconsin. His new book, “Finding Your Third Place: Building Happier Communities (and Making Great Friends Along the Way),” is available from Fulcrum Books. He also cohosts “The Ethical Life” podcast. 0 Comments Locations Lacrosse Catch the latest in Opinion Get opinion pieces, letters and editorials sent directly to your inbox weekly! Sign up! * I understand and agree that registration on or use of this site constitutes agreement to its user agreement and privacy policy. Related to this story Ethical Life playlist SoundStack