Co-Buying a House: How Platonic Partners Make It Work Abby Badach Doyle Dec 12, 2022 Dec 12, 2022 Updated Dec 12, 2022 0 Family and friends enjoying Asado party on sunny day. Males and females are spending leisure time together. They are in backyard during summer. Getty Images Prefer us on Google Learn More Facebook Twitter WhatsApp SMS Email Print Copy article link Save Abby Badach Doyle Seven years ago, Phil Levin and his girlfriend, Kristen Berman, pondered a common question: Should we move in together?kAm{6G:? 2DDF>65 E96J’5 E2<6 2 AC65:4E23=6 A2E9 2?5 7:?5 2 >@C6 277@C523=6 2A2CE>6?E @FED:56 @7 AC:46J $2? uC2?4:D4@] qFE q6C>2?[ 2 3692G:@C2= D4:6?E:DE[ D92C65 96C C6D6CG2E:@?D 23@FE =62G:?8 E96:C 7C:6?5 ?6EH@C< – 2?5 D@>6 724ED E@ 324< :E FA]k^AmkAm“p== E96 3692G:@C2= D4:6?46 C6D62C49 D9@HD E92E E92E’D @?6 @7 E96 H@CDE E9:?8D J@F 42? 5@ 7@C J@FC 92AA:?6DD[” {6G:? 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